How to seduce your dream man

10:11 13 February 2008

Valentine's Day is upon us again and as usual, many of us find ourselves single for the festivities. Fear not though because here are some sure fire ways to get the man you're after.

Follow our simple guide, bring out your red-blooded side and before you know it you'll be as alluring as Angelina Jolie, Cameron Diaz or Uma Thurman, able to wrap any man around your little finger.

Remember his name

Use his name as often as possible without overdoing it.

This will not only help you remember it, but it also ensures he's paying attention. This technique is useful and shows you're on the ball.

Be in demand

Just let loose 15 things men strangely find sexy.

Let the man you're after know that you're hot property and that he'd be lucky to have you.

Don't brag, after all you want to come across as exclusive, not easy. Be subtle too. An email from an admirer left on your screen, a Valentine's Day card on your desk and muttering something about receiving flowers will make him green with jealousy.

Of course you're not interested in these guys, but you can't help having this effect over men, can you?

Show him you're determined

Men can't resist a woman with passion or a woman with a cause.

Be it animals, the environment, politics or whatever, following this cause will show the man in question how independent and determined you are, making him want you even more.

Make sure your cause is sensible. Few men are impressed by dedication to soaps or pop stars.

Show your wild side

Find Mr Perfect What qualities should you look for?

Every red blooded man needs excitement and you need to show him you can offer that.

Let him know you have a darker side too. After all, every guy wants a wild girl in the bedroom. The key is to give off an air of mystery here, to make him fantasise about you thinking you're the one.

Work with his imagination and never forget how powerful an emotion lust can be.

Find your image

With style, chic and a little touch of perfume every woman can stand out as unforgettable.

Don't take risks though. Stick to clothes that suit you and flatter your figure or to tried and tested classics with a little dab of perfume to finish the package.

Once you have found your perfect look and perfume stick to it and get known for your image.

Develop your mind

Every woman wants a smart, successful man but is it the same for the guys?

Well simply put, yes. Just like us they want conversation to be witty, current and stimulating. In this day in age they also want a girl with prospects, opinions and a career.

Very few guys really end up in lasting relationships with the bleach blonde bimbo brigade.

Don't take no for an answer

This is the man of your dreams we're talking about, he will be yours and yours only.

As such it's you who may have to do some chasing too. Get your confidence up, make sure your in high spirits and get out there.

Don't be a pushover or settle for Mr Wrong. Speak up and get yourself noticed. Soon your dream guy won't be able to say no.